When What We Want Most Isn't What We Need
Sometimes we are about to win big!! and for which we desperately waited for a long time. We know this changes our life path, and we know this transforms our presence in the society. And all of a sudden, things take an unexpected turn from being so close to the finish line to a completely unanticipated and distinct path. At which point, we get demotivated and fill with despair and feel lost.
At any given point in time in our life, what we hoped is the best for us, may not be the best thing to have happened to us. Yes, it might sound lucrative, and life changing. But what if, the thing that you wanted the most is not the one that brings the best to you..
As a human being, in this vast universe, what we can comprehend is minuscule in comparison to what is possible. So, accepting the circumstance as "Everything happens for a reason", and moving on with your journey is the best possible thing that you can do and the only thing in your control.
Sometimes, we don't even realize what is best for us. Our thought process and mindset are clouded by societal pressures and create an illusion of desires to form what we might want the most in our life. But, if you self-reflect on your life, you might have come across similar circumstances when you wanted something the most and that had not happened forcing you to be depressed and later turned out to be one of the best things happened to you.
So, sometimes, the thing that you wanted the most is NOT something would be the best thing to happen to you. Accept it, and move on.. Because, what you can control is what you should focus on. Not what has happened to you or what you have most desired.